A Fleshlight Video Bator like no other.
If I can be real with you for a minute, these posts, these Monday Masturbator entries, are my most favorite to write for this blog. And that is for a number of reasons. First, I love being able to share things that I find and love. That kind of intimate sharing and exploring together turns me on like nothing else, and the loss of tumblr meant the loss of doing that with ease.
Second, I love talking about things and people who don’t get enough attention elsewhere. I get emails from time to time asking why I don’t write about “regular” porn, or gay porn gossip, and the truth is, that’s already happening. If you have trouble finding people or blogs trying to make gay porn drama exciting, then I think you need to check your googles before you email me about it.
Third, I just fukking LOVE talking about penises and penis masturbators! And today’s subject, the bator known as KummWithM3 (or KumWithM3), is a fucking penis masturbator! It’s amazing! And so cool when the performer and the action seems as organic and loved as it does with this guy. You might remember him from the tutorial about the DYI Fleshlight mount (which he uses constantly, and I am still in awe of). He’s bounced around between a few platforms but seems to have found a home (and definitely a following) on XHamster.
I love sex and enjoy it very much, but I thoroughly enjoy stroking my hard cock often and feeling my hot creamy cum run down my veiny cock.
-@kummwithm3
I’ve selected three of his (many!) videos to talk about here, and the reasons why I just think he’s fucking great. He’s a penis pride role model, and a joy to watch revel in dong; he really gets into his penis and it’s beautiful.
Let’s jump in:
He’s playful, even without his fleshlight mount
I talk about the vague ideas of playfulness and joy in a lot of my writing about sex and masturbation. This is large part because I see it as absent from so much of the sexual material I encounter, and then see that absence reflected in my IRL encounters. I can’t tell you the number of times I’ve been with someone for a first time and felt the need to check in to see if they’re ok. Because they don’t seem ok. Most often, this is because they don’t have any understanding that joy and play are key ingredients to the best sex people can share.
KummWithM3 is clearly a bator – check out that leg spread and that streamlined pube situation. This is a guy who came to penis, and he’s ring’d and greased and ready. But like any good bator, he rides that edge real good, flopping and toying with his donger instead of rushing straight to sperm.
I’ve already come twice to this video because I love how fixated it is on penis and on this guy’s pleasure and experience. His unselfconscious moans and groans make it so fun to imagine sitting balls to balls with him and echoing all that shit right back while we penis together.
His mounted fleshlight videos are sexual and beautiful
And that’s a tough combo.
Watching KummWithM3 thrust his hard wet penis in and out of that clear plastic fleshlight mount is erotic in almost an entirely different way than his jack off clips, and again, listening to his excited breathing and groaning adds a dimension of pleasure that the visual alone doesn’t convey. In this video in particular, his bloated boner is so saturated with lube that it’s constantly gushing out around his bone when he thrusts and dripping down his balls.
The mounted quickjack makes for perfect penis cinema
While it’s fun to watch somebody that loves their penis just fucking lay some magic on that thing, it’s even more excellent to watch somebody who takes the time to make it look as special as it really is. KummWithM3’s efforts to make fleshlight videos to share that match the beauty and joy that he is putting on display. This video is pure perfection for people who love penis. Sliding in and out and in and out of that freestanding fleshlight quickshot mount, KWM puts his boner and his moaners on full display. 3D glasses and a crowd applauding at the end might be the only way this could be improved.
And while it feels like asking for even more when we’re already full, I do wish that we could make things better. You know? I wish that guys like this felt comfortable and safe associating their face and their real life with this joyful depth of pleasure and this enviable capacity for sexual excitement. It seems such a deeply unfortunate circumstance that we’re still at a place in 2020 where exposure of something so good and so important even to our very quality of life, could be devastating and embarrassing if it were made more public. I hope one day KWM finds the desire and safety to share his whole self in this amazing way. Because I know he would be met here with only the most open of arms and encouraging of words.
That’s just how bators are.
-t
As always – a very hot bator piece of writing – thank you. I got to the first video and had my dong out. Second video I was edging and moaning. I can just imagine you naked, with a greasy cock ringed dong, stroking while writing this. Keep it up 🙂
Lol James! That was totally what was happening. It was a mess. It takes me twice as long as it should to write all these stupid posts because I keep getting hard 😆😆😆. Especially with this guy’s premium bator dong.
Glad you’re reading, and I’m glad you’re here.
-t
Thank you very much Tyler 😊 the blog is fantastic. I’m very happy that you, and so many others find enjoyment in my content. I never imagined that I would get such a response. Its very humbling and I appreciate everyone that reaches out to me with kind words, and encouragement. I haven’t been able to make new content for some time, but from all the responses as of late looks like I’ll have to get back outside, lube up my dong and get to work.
Thank you again 💓
Well this just made my whole day, bro. Stay safe, but def get some fresh stuff up when you feel ready! We’re all here for it
-t
Love this post! This bator’s videos are amazing. I’ll be adding them to my next popperbating session 🙂
Haha. He’s great for that. It’s so pretty, visually, but also suuuuuuper dong-focused and easy to melt into with some brown bottle magic. Enjoy!
-t
An amazing penis masturbator: “Monday Masturbators: KummWithM3’s Epic Fleshlight Videos” by @tylerthebadwolf… https://t.co/iwo3WE5B5V
Hey Tyler! Interesting post. I am in awe of KUM’s capacity to stimulate his cock. Once I’m seriously aroused I can’t touch my organ that much or spend much time in a Fleshlight or the equiv. I’ve come to conclude guys have a whole range of nerve sensitivities in their dicks and some are LPs, some are EPs, and some are 45s, to use an outdated analogy. I am impressed by guys whose dicks need more specialized external stimulation to get off, right? If there weren’t other parts of my body to touch and stimulate, my masturbation sessions would last no longer than they did when I was 14.
I do find it hard to hold my interest in porn that is a disembodied organ. I like body parts but I have to say I spend most of the time with porn looking at the actors faces, especially jerkoff porn. I’d love to listen to a podcast with guys about how they get off and what works and doesn’t and how as they’ve matured they’ve learned to enhance what probably started as a very rote activity.
This is such a great and insightful comment, Adam! I love it. I like your conclusion, too, that everybody is simply built different. I talk with lots of folks who think whatever they have going on is something in need of correcting or repair (I cum too fast, it takes me too long, etc), instead of learning to enjoy the ride they’re made for. I personally can’t last anywhere near as long as this dude, and my erection can sometimes be erratic, even when I haven’t cum for a while.
I fully get what you’re saying about the disembodied organ thing too. I grow super weary super fast of the headless torso cropping so many are fond of on tube sites. I just can’t get into it or find a connection with the person I’m watching. I wanted to feature this guy, though, because there’s more going on here. I encourage you to put on headphones and watch these videos. His voice and breathing are easy to bind with and it’s so arousing and fun to find somebody who doesn’t hold back on the penisbabble or masturbate in monk-like silence.
Thanks for taking the time to comment bro <3
-t
I think it’s a question of playing to your biological strengths, whatever they are. You have to get to know your body and experiment with it, from a masturbatory standpoint. But I still puzzle over the why behind that. Why certain images are the equivalent of a match and certain ones a cup of ice water. And that so many of those tastes and predilections have been with me since my early teens as if they were built into my DNA or brain wiring rather than learned. Obv, I could talk about this all day.
I wish you would! I could listen to you talk about this all day. We should all be talking about it all the time. <3
FWIW, research has shown that far more is learned (and far earlier than we want to acknowledge) than is inherently built in at birth. This includes physical and sexual "preferences," even as much as they do often feel like ideas beyond one's conscious control. Part of why I do this (this blog and the work that I do), and talk about all these things in the way that I do, is a passive attempt to release folks from stuff they might feel restrained by. Ideas or rules or walls that pen them in, which they believe are just necessary and/or inescapable to how we navigate and understand sex. The truth is that we make these rules and walls like Neo in the Matrix. If we want them to be different, we have only to make them different. The way we make them different is by exploring them.
I’m grateful you’re here for the exploring! And that you have thoughts to share. Thank you, Adam.
-t
Hi Tyler
I’m glad that I found your blog and this great article! I love KummWithM3’s video’s and I used a piece in one of my designs. I couldn’t find his profile because I searched for CummWithM3, but now I can drop him a line. Keep making great content and enjoy porn!
grtz
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MAN!
I can’t even say how cool it is that you ever look at my blog or like what I like. I so admire your work and it would be a total honor and thrill to feature your stuff here sometime. Great to imagine you penising your penis to the same stuff as me <3
-t
Great site! Im curious any idea how he got the quick shot fleshlight on the tripod??? inquiring minds want to know!
This is from a few months ago, but that is actually the subject of this post right here! In case you haven’t worked it out yet!
Sorry for the wait and thank you for reading!
-t
Nice blog. Love the focus on KWM, he truly is a truly excellent fleshlighter.
I love that he uses the ice, like me, that sllows a good view of the cock.
These videos are difficult to make and edit, i’ve made a few myself, and KWM’s work is truly amazing.
My favourite! Love his moaning
I know it! I wish he’d let us see that handsome moaning face too, but I’ll definitely take what I can get from this boner.
-t
Fuck me, the man’s a genius. Reading about you wanking to his videos got me hard in a second. What I wouldn’t give for you guys to team up for a Push Me Pull You, fucking a clear fleshlight from either end. Thank for this post. It made my day and—later—my night, too.
Awww! I love that image! I’m down for it whenever he is <3
-t