A Fleshlight Video Bator like no other.
If I can be real with you for a minute, these posts, these Monday Masturbator entries, are my most favorite to write for this blog. And that is for a number of reasons. First, I love being able to share things that I find and love. That kind of intimate sharing and exploring together turns me on like nothing else, and the loss of tumblr meant the loss of doing that with ease.
Second, I love talking about things and people who don’t get enough attention elsewhere. I get emails from time to time asking why I don’t write about “regular” porn, or gay porn gossip, and the truth is, that’s already happening. If you have trouble finding people or blogs trying to make gay porn drama exciting, then I think you need to check your googles before you email me about it.
Third, I just fukking LOVE talking about penises and penis masturbators! And today’s subject, the bator known as KummWithM3 (or KumWithM3), is a fucking penis masturbator! It’s amazing! And so cool when the performer and the action seems as organic and loved as it does with this guy. You might remember him from the tutorial about the DYI Fleshlight mount (which he uses constantly, and I am still in awe of). He’s bounced around between a few platforms but seems to have found a home (and definitely a following) on XHamster.
I love sex and enjoy it very much, but I thoroughly enjoy stroking my hard cock often and feeling my hot creamy cum run down my veiny cock.-@kummwithm3
I’ve selected three of his (many!) videos to talk about here, and the reasons why I just think he’s fucking great. He’s a penis pride role model, and a joy to watch revel in dong; he really gets into his penis and it’s beautiful.
Let’s jump in:
He’s playful, even without his fleshlight mount
I talk about the vague ideas of playfulness and joy in a lot of my writing about sex and masturbation. This is large part because I see it as absent from so much of the sexual material I encounter, and then see that absence reflected in my IRL encounters. I can’t tell you the number of times I’ve been with someone for a first time and felt the need to check in to see if they’re ok. Because they don’t seem ok. Most often, this is because they don’t have any understanding that joy and play are key ingredients to the best sex people can share.
KummWithM3 is clearly a bator – check out that leg spread and that streamlined pube situation. This is a guy who came to penis, and he’s ring’d and greased and ready. But like any good bator, he rides that edge real good, flopping and toying with his donger instead of rushing straight to sperm.
I’ve already come twice to this video because I love how fixated it is on penis and on this guy’s pleasure and experience. His unselfconscious moans and groans make it so fun to imagine sitting balls to balls with him and echoing all that shit right back while we penis together.
His mounted fleshlight videos are sexual and beautiful
And that’s a tough combo.
Watching KummWithM3 thrust his hard wet penis in and out of that clear plastic fleshlight mount is erotic in almost an entirely different way than his jack off clips, and again, listening to his excited breathing and groaning adds a dimension of pleasure that the visual alone doesn’t convey. In this video in particular, his bloated boner is so saturated with lube that it’s constantly gushing out around his bone when he thrusts and dripping down his balls.
The mounted quickjack makes for perfect penis cinema
While it’s fun to watch somebody that loves their penis just fucking lay some magic on that thing, it’s even more excellent to watch somebody who takes the time to make it look as special as it really is. KummWithM3’s efforts to make fleshlight videos to share that match the beauty and joy that he is putting on display. This video is pure perfection for people who love penis. Sliding in and out and in and out of that freestanding fleshlight quickshot mount, KWM puts his boner and his moaners on full display. 3D glasses and a crowd applauding at the end might be the only way this could be improved.
And while it feels like asking for even more when we’re already full, I do wish that we could make things better. You know? I wish that guys like this felt comfortable and safe associating their face and their real life with this joyful depth of pleasure and this enviable capacity for sexual excitement. It seems such a deeply unfortunate circumstance that we’re still at a place in 2020 where exposure of something so good and so important even to our very quality of life, could be devastating and embarrassing if it were made more public. I hope one day KWM finds the desire and safety to share his whole self in this amazing way. Because I know he would be met here with only the most open of arms and encouraging of words.
That’s just how bators are.