Sharing your boner on group jack off cam is the new post-workout sauna.
I haven’t had the bandwidth in recent months to put together a proper cam show with goals and toys and teases. But, as I wrote in this other post, I haven’t stopped wanting that attention and connection.
Five or six weeks ago, I decided I would get on Cam4 again, but instead of incentivizing and encouraging tipping in exchange for flashes or action, I started asking people how they were doing. What resulted was a sort of a quasi cam-show/group-emotion-unpacking swirly.
The next week, I went in again with the same intention. Only this time, I asked people if they would turn on their own cameras, so that our exchanges could be more of a two-way street. They could see me naked and masturbating, and I could open multiple tabs to watch everyone else joining in.
The week after that, I had so many tabs open that my computer froze mid-show. I didn’t care. I restarted without saying anything, and tried opening just few enough tabs that it didn’t lock up, and unloaded twice in front of my new (and old) friends. I knew there was something special happening here.
When I talk about these sessions on Twitter or in my private Telegram channel, encouraging others to join in the fun, one of the most frequent questions I get is “what is it really like?” followed by “do I have to turn on my cam?”
What is an online group jack off event really like?
Fukkin fun as hell, is what. While it’s rather like almond milk on some level – it’s never going to be or replace actual milk, but it’s a healthier way to go right now – flipping the format from me performing like a masturbating bear to a truly interactive setup where I’m responding in the moment to the folks responding to me. Which is really the heart of bate culture to begin with; using your bate to amplify and enhance the bate of your brothers. The serpent eating its own tail: your pleasure generates pleasure in others, which is reflected back to you.
It’s basically cool as hell.
We get online at a designated time, and spend the first section of the session talking a little bit about how everybody is feeling, and how their week has been. Some people like sharing a lot about their lives, and some are content saying “oh, it’s ok.” Truthfully, I want to hear, either way. Even if it’s been bad. We might not fix all your problems together, but being able to talk out loud about your situation and then put it on the shelf for an hour or so can be intensely therapeutic.
It usually takes a little bit of time before others in the group start to feel comfortable turning on their cams, but one by one, that’s what happens. Sometimes it’s only 2-3. Other times it’s double digits. I encourage viewers to open all the cams available, so that we experience each other as a group, and so that we can all see how similar we really are.
Will I have to turn on my own cam?
You won’t ever have to do anything you don’t feel comfortable doing.
What I strive to do is create an anti-competitive safe space, where the idea isn’t a hotness contest or sexy young guy comparison. The truth is that, as men, we all masturbate. And whether we look like pornstars doing it or not, we are still part of that fraternity! Being able to share that normally private activity to the encouragement and celebration of this supportive group, can be an intense experience! Guys who are regulars on the Bateworld video chat system know this already. But Bateworld isn’t for everyone, and if I can share some version of the flavors of that amazing space, then we’re doing good here! Group jack off parties for everybody.
My hope is that my pleasure and my penis pride will be an incentive for you to show off your boner, whether it’s big or small. And that you’ll become (if you’re not already) comfortable showing your body and your face to your brothers so that they can roll around in your pleasure a little bit along with me. Fukkin penis, right?
There’s no wrong way to participate. You have to respect yourself and your boundaries. But it could be wrong not to participate at all. If you are craving some extra attention right now, and desire a space where you aren’t in competition with folks younger or hotter than you perceive yourself, I invite you to join us. All ages (please be at least 18), races, and bodies welcome. The only thing I won’t invite is shame, so please leave that at the door with your underwear/jockstrap, and lemme see your penis, bro.
Meet you at Cam4 on Wednesday, September 23 at 730PM EST.
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Advice:
If you think you might like to join our next session, create a free Cam4 account now, and then subscribe to my calendar so you’ll receive an update any time I have something scheduled. This also allows you to tip if you’re able, and to broadcast and chat easily while we’re online together.
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