Here's some free security stuff you can be doing day-to-day to ensure your info is a little less accessible to folks who might want to cause problems. June is Pride month (or it was when this was originally posted over at thesword.com)! But as far as we’ve come with rights and...
Dear Tyler,I see male escorts and dancers regularly and am quite familiar with some of them. We seem to get along well at first but they drift away and later start avoiding me. I try my best to be respectful, and take care of them. What am I doing wrong?-...
Am I back for real this time? Boy! So quiet around here this year, huh? In truth that's only been partly accidental. The last time I came in here to talk about why I had been away, I shared some of my reasoning. But the truth is that there's a lot...
The results are in, and it's official: nobody knows! If you're a regular reader here, or you just enjoy really scrutinizing the websites you visit, you may have noticed some small changes here and there around this site. The most significant of those is probably the new url (you didn't even...
Author and thinker bell hooks addresses our collective understanding of the penis and what we might do differently. There have been a couple of issues that I have avoided discussing here, which have kept me away from this platform for an extended period. The most prominent one is an email I...
I think you're a terrible person. Dear Sir:I want to be forthright and tell you that I was the person who reported you to the front desk this week, for the way you behave in the mens locker room at my gym. I have seen you in that locker room every...
Five simple ways to protect your communications and keep your secrets secret. I was completely amazed at the popularity of this post about secure email options, and heartened by the idea that a little education was all it took to encourage people to maybe make better choices for themselves. It can...