The results are in, and it's official: nobody knows! If you're a regular reader here, or you just enjoy really scrutinizing the websites you visit, you may have noticed some small changes here and there around this site. The most significant of those is probably the new url (you didn't even...
Author and thinker bell hooks addresses our collective understanding of the penis and what we might do differently. There have been a couple of issues that I have avoided discussing here, which have kept me away from this platform for an extended period. The most prominent one is an email I...
I think you're a terrible person. Dear Sir:I want to be forthright and tell you that I was the person who reported you to the front desk this week, for the way you behave in the mens locker room at my gym. I have seen you in that locker room every...
Five simple ways to protect your communications and keep your secrets secret. I was completely amazed at the popularity of this post about secure email options, and heartened by the idea that a little education was all it took to encourage people to maybe make better choices for themselves. It can...
Just something to think about on particularly low days. Today's post is a bit of a followup to this post about my struggles with depression. The support and concern that was shown me after writing that was almost boggling to me. Inviting that discussion was never my intention in putting it...
What to do to keep your communications under your control, and why you should do it. This post has been a long time in the making, and my apologies if you came in here today expecting some swinging foreskin, or slutty comics. This one is très serious and I'll need your...
Evaluating a feeling of freedom younger men might never appreciate. Through the magic of twitter recently, I was reintroduced to a long-lost love of my early internet days, XY Magazine. XY was a very rare bird indeed, and offered guys like me a window into a world of beauty and acceptance that we...