Save them! Save the sperm! It’s been nearly a month since my last post here, and much has happened both in my own life and in the world, but my not sharing stuff I think is important – my silence – isn’t making anything any better. So I think I’m ready to start creeping […]
Orlando
What is there to say. I spent 22 years in Florida and much time in Orlando. I would offer my thoughts and prayers, but thoughts and prayers seem so small and selfish to those who have experienced real loss. So I’ll save them. I don’t have anything intelligent to add to the conversation, so my […]
Wonder Why We’re Like This About Our Genitals?
Because our culture normalizes penis shame. I’m real pissed about this one, you guys. I don’t know how big a story this is where you live, but I use an app that shows me the ten most shared stories across all social media each day (it doesn’t give me a sense of “good” journalism, […]
Here’s What I Know
I’ve been going through something the last month or so and have been deliberately avoiding coming in here to talk about it. But it seems like I need to and that now might be a good time to do it. As you may or may not know — it’s an easy google search if […]
The Bible Says You Should Totally Get Naked and Whack It
And I’ve got the scripture to prove it. Ordinarily, I work hard to stay away from religion, or politics, or even anything I think sounds especially divisive at all. I’m still torn about this post about MAL where I said some not nice things about the guys I saw there. But this was a […]
My first MAL will probably be my last.
I’m feeling a lot of types of ways about this whole situation, and most of them aren’t very good. I would love to say publicly that my sex enthusiastic attitude and encouragement comes completely naturally to me, but the truth of the matter is that it doesn’t. Naturally, I have a tendency to be […]





