Now lemme tell you why that’s a big deal. Got a little quiet around here again this week. But I’ve gotten such positive responses to my 1000 word ode to cockrings, that I wanted to take some time today and talk about the general un-gay-ing of penis accessories. Because I think it’s relevant and […]
Broken Buddy Bate: Or, “How Not To Jack With Friends”
Stu and Pavel are super hot and super disconnected. Without question, my most popular tumblr post in the lifetime of that account, is a simple photograph of two dudes holding hands while they masturbate: https://tylerthebadwolf.tumblr.com/post/153431464181/if-you-ever-really-want-to-understand-me-better I don’t know who these guys are, or what the context for this image is. But somehow […]
General Housekeeping Update + a Side of Feelings
I’m a little overwhelmed, but too pretty to say so. If you’re a regular reader here, you’ve surely noticed (lots of you have emailed to ask what’s up) that I haven’t posted much these past few weeks. Part of that is because of an unusually grueling summer travel schedule that’s just about to […]
“Here’s How to Protect Your Privacy From Your Internet Service Provider”
What you can do to protect your privacy from ISPs who want to extinguish it. Due to the sheer disinterest and ignorance about internet privacy rules and regulations, and the murky nature of who has authority over those rules, lots of things have changed in recent months that might affect data you didn’t even […]
Louis CK and the Ending of “Magic Mike”
Louis CK is most men at 49: he just wants a boyfriend. Unpopular opinion: gay culture has spoiled what it means for men to have sex and share love. Let me explain: I have met a truly shocking number of men who either discover late in their life that they are desirous of masculine […]
Homosexual But Not Gay via Psychology Today
It’s complicated. But not as complicated as you think. I’ve featured writings by Dr. Joe Kort, a therapist and author specializing in sex and relationships (both gay and straight), here before. I’m never surprised to find his name turn up when I’m googling for additional readings about gay stuff. He has a great ability to […]