We talk a lot about masturbation and bate practices here, and have great cause to frequently say the word “bator” and “bate,” and I am cautious to use the correct spellings of each word, as they are clearly and logically derived from larger terms.
5 Basic (FREE) Security Steps To Protect Your Gay Ass Online
Here’s some free security stuff you can be doing day-to-day to ensure your info is a little less accessible to folks who might want to cause problems. June is Pride month (or it was when this was originally posted over at thesword.com)! But as far as we’ve come with rights and equality, there’s plenty […]
Uncomfortable Asks: Stripper Struggles
Dear Tyler, I see male escorts and dancers regularly and am quite familiar with some of them. We seem to get along well at first but they drift away and later start avoiding me. I try my best to be respectful, and take care of them. What am I doing wrong? – Anonymous Welcome, […]
We Need To Talk: About Your Butthole (Part 2)
Guys. Seriously. A little over a year ago, Part 1 of this discussion was posted to a surprisingly good reception. It even seemed to invite a lot (I’m not kidding, a lot!) of suggestions and demands for a follow up about douching. But I gotta tell you. We are not ready to talk about […]
Do This, Not That: Secure Messaging Edition
Five simple ways to protect your communications and keep your secrets secret. I was completely amazed at the popularity of this post about secure email options, and heartened by the idea that a little education was all it took to encourage people to maybe make better choices for themselves. It can be easy to […]
Gentle Reminder: There Might Be Nothing Wrong With You
Just something to think about on particularly low days. Today’s post is a bit of a followup to this post about my struggles with depression. The support and concern that was shown me after writing that was almost boggling to me. Inviting that discussion was never my intention in putting it together in the […]