It’s a complicated question with more emotions than answers at the end. As I get ready to reopen my personal website this week, after weeks and months of work invested – not just by me, but a designer and photographer as well – it’s impossible not to think of one of the parts of this […]
Suspiciously Squinting My Way Through “Escort Lessons” from Samantha X
The ‘Not Sure If’ meme applies to everything below this subheadline. Every 3-6 months an article like this one appears in a British paper, usually in the Daily Mail or the Guardian, alerting us all to the ‘underworld of sex work we never knew existed!’ All the ins and outs of a seedy and […]
Soda Is Killing Your Sperm
Save them! Save the sperm! It’s been nearly a month since my last post here, and much has happened both in my own life and in the world, but my not sharing stuff I think is important – my silence – isn’t making anything any better. So I think I’m ready to start creeping […]
Wonder Why We’re Like This About Our Genitals?
Because our culture normalizes penis shame. I’m real pissed about this one, you guys. I don’t know how big a story this is where you live, but I use an app that shows me the ten most shared stories across all social media each day (it doesn’t give me a sense of “good” journalism, […]
Penis Size: You Gotta Work With What You Have
I know… I know. Easy to say, tough to hear. One of the things about having a job where your appearance plays an exceptionally large role, is trying to figure out where your real limitations are (this is probably as tall as I’ll ever be, and my nuts aren’t getting any larger, no matter how […]
Protected: The Particular Problem With Promotion
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