Hey! That’s me! I wrote a little article for Thought Catalog and I’d love it very much if you’d read it. Here’s an excerpt: [vc_separator type=’small’ position=’center’ color=’#707070′ thickness=” up=’15’ down=’15’] How Being A Professional Companion Taught Me To Be A Better Boyfriend by Tyler Dårlig Ulv | MAY 8, 2017 A little […]
“Things I Have Learned in 7 Years as a Professional Dominatrix” by Sandra Wade
There’s so much to absorb from this list! I have something of an ‘almost but not quite’ understanding of kink and fetish work, and despite having friends who are Doms and Dommes and fetish performers and more, still live in relative ignorance about what their jobs and practices actually entail. As I imagine many […]
50 Shades of PR-Shaming Sexually Curious/Adventurous Men
When will this trash-hole franchise just die already? I lost my virginity at the age of fourteen. The next day, I was already more sexually mature and open-minded than I imagine most of the perceived audience for the deplorable 50 Shades novels and films must be. If you’re unfamiliar with this “cultural phenomenon” (gag), I […]
Why DO You Care What Other People Think?
I don’t grapple with this question a lot, but when I do, it frustrates me. I want to talk about this with a quick reading from the Huffington Post (I know, I know…). Really, it’s a quick reading from a reputable psychologist and academic, about the nature and necessity of community. We can all […]
Things To Leave in 2016
This has been a bit of a bumpy ride, hasn’t it? I’ve never been one for New Year’s Resolutions. Even though I’ve worked in fitness marketing for years, and have to convince a bunch of people to join gyms every January (so that those gyms can keep paying me to make things to convince […]
Almost, But Not Quite: Britain Pardons Homosexuals, But Won’t Apologize
What is a pardon worth when someone has committed no crime? This started off as a very different post, and, before I read this New York Times article in its entirety, I saw its story as a hopeful and exciting turn towards the future. But when you really examine the core of this idea, […]