The best lesson to take away from all of it is that one should be actively aware and present when stepping into these spaces. For me, in particular, going in with a baseline understanding of “this isn’t really real” helps to temper the emotional swings of rage and pleasure I know are coming my way.
The world has been crazy, and I have been quiet.
You know what that means! Hi friends! I’ve really missed coming in here to talk about cool stuff or people or art I love. But life is just so weird all the time now. And my job is weird to begin with. As an online naked person and escort, it feels in some strange way […]
What is all of this doing to us?
It has been an interesting Summer so far, has it not? Perhaps interesting isn’t even the right word. But I’m personally so exhausted of hearing words like “unprecedented” and “challenging” and “troubled” to describe our current moment. Not that I have better words. Things are certainly challenging and troubling and unprecedented. I’ve written here in […]
Gentle Reminder: There Might Be Nothing Wrong With You
Just something to think about on particularly low days. Today’s post is a bit of a followup to this post about my struggles with depression. The support and concern that was shown me after writing that was almost boggling to me. Inviting that discussion was never my intention in putting it together in the […]
Truth Talk: Depression
Alert: There’s fewer dicks in this post than you’d expect on this blog. If you are a regular reader, or someone who follows me on twitter, you might have noticed a slowdown of posting and chatter in the last few months from me. I think it’s important to take some time here and talk […]