Hey there! I’m Tyler. I’m a writer, elite companion/male escort, and all-around penis enthusiast. My last name literally means “bad wolf” in Norwegian, (so, tylerthebadwolf) and I use him/his/bro pronouns.
I started this blog as a part of my personal escort website way back in 2010, and it grew cumbersome enough to deserve its own home around 2012. While I’ve worked pretty hard to clarify my mission for this site, more than anything it’s my home to unpack whatever weird or important stuff I’ve got on my mind, or that we’re confronting as a society. And to define Tyler’s Lexicon of Penis Words.
I call Toronto home these days, but went to school in New York and lived there for over a decade. I worked as the social media director and copywriter for Rentboy.com for a couple years (until the raid in 2015 by federal authorities), and then I was the editor and writer for Manhunt Daily for a year. I’ve worked with some of the biggest companies in adult entertainment, and consulted or contributed work for brands like PornHub, Naked Sword, Slixa, Eros, Queerty, and Cam4. You can find out more about working with me (Tyler) or badwolf.blog here.
For the last decade+, I have been an
elite companion, private entertainer, personal model, male escort… Oof. Let’s start that again. Those all sound so loaded…
For the last decade+, I have been privileged to meet some amazing people and travel the world a little bit in the process.
If you are interested in connecting in real life, I encourage you to check out my personal website for more information about how to make that happen. Please do not contact me via badwolf.blog to make plans.
I am a sex worker and I’m an advocate for sex worker rights, believing that the only way those rights will be realized is through the full decriminalization of sex work, full stop. I believe that normalizing and discussing what it is to be a consensual sex worker, and what our individual experiences are like (without erasing or talking over top of anyone else, or qualifying any experience as less important and less real), is the best possible way to normalize the idea that sex work is real work, and that it is owed the same respect and protections under the law as any job.
My goal, whether in talking about sex work, or talking about how unbelievably cool penises are, is to shine light on ideas that we don’t talk about in other places, or in real life very well. To let people know that their genitals are not inherently dirty or shameful, and that carrying shame around has serious consequences (see also: why men can’t wash their asses without worrying it’s “gay”).
Talking about our bodies, our dongs, the ways we masturbate and experience pleasure, and all the myriad things that turn us on or off, is the best possible way for us to overcome body shaming, anxiety over genital size and performance, and health issues like HIV that continue to generate stigma and ignorant ideas to this day. Knowing what’s real – whether that’s the size of your neighbor’s wang or the reality of serosorting or Truvada as PrEP – is the best way to stay healthy, sane, and as sexually active as you want to be.
My name is Tyler and I’m an out and proud masturbator (and I hope you are too). If you’re not yet, stick around, and let’s see if I can’t help you get there.
I love your penis, bro. tylerthebadwolf
“Wtf is all this?” I can hear you practically shouting right now.
And you’re in luck! Because I’ve got an answer. This site, badwolf.blog is a resource for penis masturbators.
Oh. That didn’t clear it up for you? Let’s see if I can longform something more edifying then…