A trusty standby when I’m ready to jack and don’t wanna search for that perfect new vid.

I’ve been updating the back catalog posts of Stuff That I’m Into which weren’t properly carried over from a past iteration of this blog. As I post those, even though they’re backdated, WordPress is kicking out an email to all of the subscribers of this blog (hi guys! You’re my favorites! If you also want to subscribe, all you have to do is leave a comment and check ‘notify me of new posts’) saying I’ve posted a new thing. One of the A-Z posts that got a couple of emails from people with questions was this one about Penising.

Now, Penising, to anyone who’s ever been ‘in the zone‘ before, is a very specific and accurate way to describe this kind of masturbation. It’s a different thing than just jacking off or buddybate or anything like that. Penising is about really being focused on and contemplating your actual penis. Not just stroking cause it feels good, while you think about various and sundry stimulating images. It’s useful sometimes to have a big mirror to really be able to see your penis from all angles and watch what’s going on.  It’s also a good slide into gooning (a deeper, instinctual, caveman-style type of masturbation that circumvents the more cerebral aspects of Penising) if you’re into such things.

Of course, without clear and official definitions, a lot of these terms become interchangeable and used to describe different kinds of bate styles for different people.

When I’m trying to do a little more than work out a load, I like to have a video to watch that’s going to really help me get into the penis headspace. I love watching other men really unselfconsciously masturbate their penises. Not in a pornographic, show-offy, performance way, but that comfortable, wide leg spread, slouched down in your bate chair, logged into BateWorld, kind of masturbating. The kind where you like being seen, but because you know it’s heightening your audience’s bate, not because you need the ego blast of someone jacking off to you. It’s a subtle nuance, but it’s there.

This clip from porn performer Ben Taylor (who I actually was totally unfamiliar with until after I found this video) has long been one of my bookmarked favorites. I probably watch this once every couple of months, just because it’s so good. Ben moves from a general jack off into something more serious around the 2 minute mark, and you can really see how lost he is in his penis as he moves into a pretty great sounding orgasm. There’s nothing about the way this guy busts that suggests he just had to empty his balls. This gets serious. Those guttural and shapeless sounds he makes as his nutt works its way up his shaft are pure Penising pleasure.

If I had my way, this video would be half an hour long, and he’d have a bottle of poppers off to the side just so he could really tune into that dick without worrying about how he looked or what anyone thought. But as it is, it’s still a glorious example to anyone looking to up their masturbation game from just stroking till you cum.

Watch Ben.

Be more like Ben when you masturbate.

-t