After this post about ways to stoke Penis Pride, someone pointed me toward a book that seemed like it might be right up my ally. “The Genius Guide to Penis Pride” is available all over the internet as both a physical book and an easy to download ebook/Kindle book published by Xlibris.
5 Keys to Reduce Shame and Amp Up Penis Pride
Viewing your own penis as a key to connection with others is the crux of learning to be proud of it. Because it holds so much potential and so much power for you. Even if you never meet another penis in real life to share arousal and generate friction and pleasure together, you are part of something larger than you, and are accepted into it wholly, just as you are.
Practicing these steps, and making intentional time to take your clothes off and touch and stimulate your genitals is how you learn to love them. They bring only joy and pleasure into your world, no matter their size or shape.
Story Time: “Neal ‘n’ Unk” by Lord Iron
Lord Iron’s got a vintage Handjobs tale with all the hallmarks of the stories we love here: exploration, joy, connection, and consent. While lots of the stories in classic Handjobs issues go unattributed or are credited to single first name authors who are never heard from again, a handful of illustrators also authored the many […]
Words are Important: The Accepted Shame of Calling Genitals “Privates”
There is no time or situation where “privates” is the best choice of word, and the power that it possesses to reinforce learned cultural shame about our genitals, and the unacceptability of our sex parts, is transparently dangerous.
GHOST Poppers Review: Ultra Strong Means Something Different to Ghosts, Maybe
I will admit to you that these made me nervous. The “Ultra Strong” designation and a big “DANGER” tag on the side of the poppers bottle kept me treading light. At first. Having lived in Toronto (where selling poppers is technically illegal and importing them can lose you money when customs snags them at the […]
August Favorite Things
J Lube, Proudbator, Jockstraps, and Peloton – Summer stuff to get you through the hard times. We haven’t done a Favorite Things post in aaaages! I started these way back when as a way to talk about stuff I liked that wasn’t quite deserving of its own full-length post, but that was worth sharing, regardless. […]