Uncomfortable Asks is my infrequent advice column, where I directly address (with permission) letters or messages sent to me in a more elaborate and thoughtful fashion than I might be able in just a regular reply. Ask your own Asks here. Dear Tyler, I’ve never been with a sex worker, and I haven’t had sex […]
On Being a Male Escort in a Time of Crisis
If you are a sex worker, particularly if you are a male-ID’d sex worker, who is struggling right now: I see you and you matter. Your work matters. And it is real work. We will get through this.
Stardew Valley is Superior to Animal Crossing for One Reason: Hardcore Gay Sex
Characters suck and fuck and masturbate for one another with gleeful, uncensored abandon. With everything going on in my life these past few months (my suspended move to Berlin, my all consuming work project followed by the demise of my all consuming work project, and my day to day struggles with staying productive and staying […]
Top 12 Things That are Weirdly Different in London
Please Read All Further Blog Posts With A Posh Accent, as I’ve made it to London and I think this is home. Hard to believe we took a whole week off from writing about dicks and stroking and porn and stuff here. But getting to the UK ended up being more complicated than I expected […]
Self Inflicted Punishment: Liveblogging Netflix’s “Escorts”
Subtitled: “Ugh/Oh No!” I don’t do a ton of liveblog stuff here because it’s kind of a copout, as far as writing goes. It’s a collection of my in-the-moment reactions to things, and not a thoughtful meditation on a film or show (or whatever) as a whole. But Netflix has been pitching Escorts to […]
Daddy’s Reviews: Should You Give A Damn About A Bad Reputation?
It’s a complicated question with more emotions than answers at the end. As I get ready to reopen my personal website this week, after weeks and months of work invested – not just by me, but a designer and photographer as well – it’s impossible not to think of one of the parts of this […]