Uncomfortable Asks is my infrequent advice column, where I directly address (with permission) letters or messages sent to me in a more elaborate and thoughtful fashion than I might be able in just a regular reply. Ask your own Asks here. Dear Tyler, I’ve never been with a sex worker, and I haven’t had sex […]
On Being a Male Escort in a Time of Crisis
If you are a sex worker, particularly if you are a male-ID’d sex worker, who is struggling right now: I see you and you matter. Your work matters. And it is real work. We will get through this.
Stardew Valley is Superior to Animal Crossing for One Reason: Hardcore Gay Sex
Characters suck and fuck and masturbate for one another with gleeful, uncensored abandon. With everything going on in my life these past few months (my suspended move to Berlin, my all consuming work project followed by the demise of my all consuming work project, and my day to day struggles with staying productive and staying […]
Open Christmas Letter
Because “Holiday” is for Communists, and this is America. I’m not a big family guy – if you know me, I’m sure we’ve talked about it at some point. I’m at an age where most of my family scatters for the major holidays, lest we should all have to spend time together instead. We’re all […]
